How to Attract A Woman You Really Like

One thing I talk a lot about is how important it is for a woman to perceive you as “different.”

If you’re just another a guy (a JAG) she’ll treat you as such.  But if she thinks you’re different, she’ll treat you differently.

After all, she can meet a JAG anywhere… but finding a man who’s different is very rare.

One of the best ways to be different is to be a good story teller.

A Different Guy Tells a Different Story…

A woman loves a man who can tell a good story. Good storytelling activates her mind and her imagination (whereas most guys shut those off).

Even better is when you can take an ordinary, mundane event like, say, going to lunch, and turn it into a hilarious story. Few men can do that, but that’s because so few men are willing to learn.

Like anything else, story-telling is a learnable skill, and there are plenty of places to learn it. Even just by turning on the comedy channel and watching some of the lasting comedians like Ron White, Chris Rock, or Dave Chappelle, you’ll see plenty of great story telling.

When you tell a story, the magic is in the details.

Women love details. It allows them to use their imaginations, to see the story, and most importantly feel the emotions.

Women make decisions about men based on their internal feelings, and telling stories is a great way to make her feel the way she wants to.

Everyone is fascinated by a great storyteller, especially women. Make it your business to become one, and you too will have women begging you to tell them a story… then make them a part of great story starring YOU.

Another excellent way to ensure that you stand out from all those “JAGs” out there is a simple trick that far too many men don’t capitalize on: Don’t be a bore.

Yeah You Bore Me All Night Long

The ultimate sin in the dating world is being boring.

The one thing women can’t stand more than anything else is a boring guy. Women have active minds, and they want those minds engaged by a guy who is both fun and interesting.

One of the many reasons married women leave their husbands is because the guy is just plain boring — in every area of life. She realizes the rest of her life will be boring, so she trades in boring for anything else… because to a woman, being boring is the worst offence.

As men, we’re kind of okay with boring.

We can watch football all day, go to the same places, eat the same food, hang out with the same people and we’re pretty much satisfied. Sure, we like some excitement on occasion, but to us boring is just fine.

But you have to understand this: women do NOT think like men do, nor do they make decisions like men do.

What you have to do is make yourself interesting.

You don’t have to be a world traveler, or a captain of industry, or a rock star — all you have to do is keep her mind engaged. Oftentimes that just comes down to having new and witty comments and stories that keep her laughing.

How Women Gonna Likes Me

Oftentimes all it takes is going to a few new places, and experiencing a few new things. That’s it — it’s not really that complicated. And you’ll also discover that “interesting” is a lot more enjoyable than being boring.

Even better, the more interesting you are, the more other people are attracted to you — people who can bring you the kinds of opportunities that are unavailable to boring men.

So make yourself exciting.

The woman in your life will like it, others will like it, and you will like it. It’s always better to live an interesting life than a boring one.